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Ask each other how involved your parents are in daily decisions. Talk about boundaries, living arrangements, and how often you'll visit family.
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Keep conversations purposeful. Avoid flirty or emotional dependence. Set time limits and involve a third party if needed. Fear Allah and keep the goal of nikah in mind.
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Yes. Discuss how many children you'd like, parenting style, and when you'd want to start a family. These topics show maturity and future planning.
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Phrase it like, “Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?” or “How do you balance work and family?” Ensure your goals complement each other.
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Discuss whether you can grow together spiritually. Ask, “Are you open to learning and improving with me?” Balance and mutual respect are key.
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Yes — marriage is a financial partnership too. Discuss income, spending habits, debt, savings goals, and expectations (e.g., working or staying at home).
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Inconsistency, avoiding questions, emotional manipulation, control issues, or disrespect. Trust your instincts and seek family advice if anything feels off.
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Be honest without oversharing. If there's something major (like divorce or past struggles), share it after trust is built — preferably before engagement. Transparency builds long-term trust.
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Be respectful. Ask things like “How important is daily salah to you?” or “What’s your view on Islamic roles in marriage?” Gauge both their beliefs and practice.
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Start with parental guidance. Once initial interest is confirmed, candidates should talk directly under family awareness to explore compatibility more deeply.